The next day, Sunday, it was up early
again, this time to go (back) to church for the usual weekly
service. It was the family's day to do thanksgiving and
the remaining Americans (Greg and Geoff left on a morning flight
today) participated in the ceremony (are you surprised?), with
Scott offering a yam and Caroline a very ripe pineapple.
Post-service, we piled back in the van for a lunch of ram stew
and jollof rice (very spicy, of course) at the house.
After a little visiting amongst ourselves, the Americans begged
off, in desperate need of a nap after 3 busy days in a row.
We were taken back to the hotel, where we all passed out in our
rooms and then enjoyed a pleasantly familiar meal together at
the Italian restaurant in the hotel compound.
On Monday, feeling rested after yesterday's
wedding recovery day, it was back to action. First stop was
lunch at “The Chairman’s” (aka “The Admiral”, aka “Favorite
Uncle”) house. Trevor needed to thank him for being the
Chairman of the wedding. While lunch was delicious (chicken,
shrimp salad, moi moi, jollof & fried rice, Coke, Star beer and
some Elvis Presley on the menu), the real treat was the tour of
The Admiral’s waterfront mansion, the Admiralty, according to
the sign on the front of the house. Multiple pools, bay-view
decks, a dock for his yacht, 25-foot tall chandelier, walk-in
closets and master bath far bigger than our kitchen at home and
what we like to call “throne-style” gilded gold & red velvet
seating, it was… something else. The tour concluded after he
showed us the $80k china set that Prince Charles (his old
classmate) gave him.
Now time for another hair-raising
adventure-drive to the airport… when traffic was bad enough that
we slowed way down, it did allow us to see how the other half
(98%?) live. People are everywhere you look in Lagos – an
estimated million of them make their living standing in the
middle of the road (where the dashed stripe would be if they had
lanes) trying to sell things to passing cars…. Cell phone
recharge cards, Cokes, Mont Blanc pens, bad motivational books,
packaged sausage rolls – you name it. Kind of like we saw in
Mexico, but on a far larger scale.
At one point, running late for our flight,
our driver attempted a shortcut through the Nigerian army
barracks near the airport. About to pass through the guard
station, the guard took a look and saw Scott and Brandon –
Trevor’s brother – sitting in the back of the van. “No white
men!”, he shouted… repeatedly. Our security guard started a
loud and aggressive looking argument with him (in Nigeria, this
is how all conversations are described), but lost the battle,
and we had to turn around. We still made our flight with time
to spare, and landed in what seemed like a whole different world
– Nigeria’s capital of Abuja.
Abuja has officially been the
capital of Nigeria since 1991. Up until 1980 or so, it was a
much smaller Nigerian town. To aid with the congestion problem
in Lagos, it was decided to move the capital to Abuja, and the
city was planned out to appeal to more of a global visitor.
Streetlights, lanes, a few working stoplights, large, new
multi-story buildings, a Sheraton, a Hilton. It reminded us much
more of some of the medium-sized cities we’d visited in Mexico.
Quiet and calm would be the best words to describe Abuja when
comparing it to Lagos – where most drivers are honking their
horns more often than refraining from honking. More
conservative dress, too, with women in head coverings that fall
to the waist, and the vibrant colors of Lagos giving way to more
muted tones. This change is explained by the fact that
Abuja is a sort of gateway city to the Muslim north of Nigeria.
We spent Tuesday hanging out at John &
Quincy’s Abuja home, in an upscale neighborhood at the edge of
the city, where several foreign embassies were located. After
lounging around the house all morning, unable to even figure out
how to turn on the TV, we were taken on a walk around the
neighborhood by the pleasant and interesting gateman, Francis.
Later, we took a driving tour of Abuja, in the rain, which
included stopping at another shopping center for croissants and
ice cream (both reported to be delicious – and not spicy!).
We spent a quiet evening awaiting the
arrival of Trevor, Maria, and the rest of her family. Cook
served us dinner, we ate, helped ourselves to the tabletop
toothpicks and dental floss and retired to the living room where
we watched several excruciating hours of men's and women's judo
and similarly entertaining Olympic competitions on TV.
Upon the family's arrival from the airport, while they
dined, we delighted in pouring over the 3 albums of wedding
photos they brought with them, and we even got to see pictures
of ourselves, the family and other wedding guests in several
Lagos papers! We have copies available for viewing for
anyone who wants to come to Albuquerque and see the excitement
for themselves.
We (Scott and Caroline) carefully planned out our next
five days, with much help from John. It was decided that we
would fork over some US $s to John, who would convert our cash
for us, hire us a car and driver ($250/day incl. gas), and buy us a cell phone. Our
itinerary included driving east, up in altitude to the city of Jos on the Jos Plateau for a night, followed by a trip to Kano,
in the north part of the country, to get a feel for the Muslim
vibe and hopefully see the camel market, then stopping in Zaria
and Kaduna on our way back to Abuja on Saturday. We had a 7am
flight to catch back to Lagos on Sunday, where our flight back
to the U.S. departed at 11:45am – we did NOT want to miss that
flight.
Scott and Caroline pose with the view from an upper terrace at
the Admiralty
Dennis & Sally kick back in the family's Abuja house |
Caroline's Sunday church attire (not her idea) - at least no one
looked at her and said "ahoy, matey" or just "aargghh"
(besides Scott)
A delicious lunch at the Admiral's Table (that's him at the
end), complete with white fur speaker attached to his i-pod,
blasting Elvis tunes
Taking in the view from the boat dock area at the Admiral's
house
View of our lunch terrace at the Admiral's house from an upper
terrace
The Admiral's main Living Room
Laundry hanging out to dry in the Abuja neighborhood
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